Thursday, December 31, 2009

Merry Christmas

We would like to wish everyone a Merry Christmas!  Our holiday was spent warm and cozy in our home as a blizzard roared outside.  Some of the drifts are up to our windows.  We decided to stay home with Interstate, churches and many more things closing throughout the state.  We missed our families a lot and enjoyed web-caming with them.  Though webcams don't replace hugs, we hope to web-cam a little more through this week/weekend. 

The kids were excited that Santa still made it to our house.  They said that it was Rudolf's year to lead the sleigh and he did a good job.  Since they got to sing that song for their school programs it was a favorite this year.  Now Marisa has memorized the 12 Days Of Christmas song.... so has dad :)

Marisa was the first one up and full of energy.  She was proud to read everyone's name and pass out gifts to all.  We were happy we didn't have that job and got to sit and help the little ones tear into the wrapping paper.  Marisa seems to have grown so much in the past year!  She has become such a great helper and wanting to take on more tasks.  Since napping no longer exists in her vocabulary the nights can be a little touchy but she keeps busy reading and doing crafts all day.

Rebecca was the next one up.  The look on her face was amazing.  She has been learning to ready her name so she quickly spotted out all her presents.  She is approaching 4 and now has this ability to be "grown-up" at times.  This morning it was hard to keep her still and away from gifts as we tried to fix some problems with the webcams.  Rebecca enjoys talking and running.  Yup she sings  and talks as she runs laps around the house lately.  She has been wearing her "tapping" shoes and princess shoes all day long.  We need to pry them off for bed times.  She was very happy with what Santa brought (well, no Dora that morning but she got a camera so it was ok).

Brayden was a little shy coming down the stairs until he saw a DINOSAUR!  LOL  He was so much fun that morning.  It was his first Christmas morning that he knew what was going on.  We couldn't keep him still or from tearing into gifts.  He just picked up presents and began opening them (which caused minor issues for the girls who knew they weren't his, luckily they were family gifts).  His favorite words all season were "Ho, Ho, Ho! Merry Christmas!" yet with such a cute little voice.  It is funny how he will annoy anyone (including dad) and then have this sweetness of kisses and hugs to try to get out of trouble.  He has been converted to a "big boy" bed.  We built a "tent" around the twin mattress to help him transition and he loves it. 

Bridget was smiley and confused that morning.  She couldn't decide if she was hungry or wanted to play.  Eventually hunger won but not for some time.  She wasn't interested in unwrapping the gifts but had fun playing with the paper and all the other toys.  Bridget would grab a toy and go waling off.  As she was chased she would pick up speed.  This girl is about to run.  She has been mastering walking throughout the house.  In fact she refuses to crawl at all.  She is now almost 11months old..... wow, this last year went by so fast!!

Hope everyone has a safe and Happy New Year!!  (pictures to follow soon)

Monday, November 23, 2009

11/23/09

Happy Thanksgiving!
Ok, I know it is early but I know I will not get back on here for awhile.  What is the family up to for Thanksgiving?  Well, with Travis' work schedule we will be staying home.  So that means I get to cook.  I received my "list" of requests the other day from the kids and Travis.  There was a slight panic that there may not be any pumpkin pie this year.  Travis was excited to see that I had gotten stuff to make pumpkin pie about 2 months ago so we are covered here.  Travis is still working 10hr days 6 days a week.  We will be eating "Turkey dinner" at 11am so we can fit the rest of his day in.  Yup he has it planned.  Christmas tree is going to go up and decorations too.  Since the outage has been officially extended to the 10th of December and unofficially until the 3rd week of December he figures he won't have much time to decorate later.

Marisa is having a "feast" in school tomorrow then has the rest of the week off.  The feast should be interesting since the food requested was a lot of sweets.  Rebecca has Grandfriends day tomorrow.  She will be having soup and songs with mom, Brayden, and Bridget since we were the only family able to attend.

We have had a round of sickness going around.  It started 2weeks ago with Marisa, then to mom Rebecca and Brayden last week.  Now it is to Dad and Brayden is still going through something new.  We are fighting a fever today with Brayden.

Bridget is determined to walk.  She wants no help in the feat.  She is stubborn about it too.  So far she gets 4 steps before wobbling to her but.  Her 2 top teeth are almost in.  She has been loving "patty-cake" and peek-a-boo.  Marisa is losing her 2nd tooth.  The Tooth Fairy may just visit before Thanksgiving but more likely closer to Christmas.  Brayden has taken a leap in language.  He is now trying to learn names of everything he sees.  He is starting to have a little more sentence structure.  Rebecca is excelling in pre-preschool.  She still doesn't want to clean but loves to color and put together puzzles.

I am staying sane through all this with playing soccer, and the visit from my mom (I really missed her and wished my dad didn't have to work).  Now if I can work on not getting hurt and running a little more while I am on the field.  Well I have been discovered.

Monday, October 26, 2009

10/26/09

It has been quite some time since I have been able to get on here and write.  I would like to blame the computer crashing mulitple times and a busy life for my lack of typing but to be honest life is always busy.  What have we done this month?  A lot.  We were able to make a trip back to Hartington for one night.  It was a quick trip that we all wished we could stay longer.  We even had a little girl in tears about leaving.  It is so wonderful to see the bond our kids have with family.  The tears were not fun but the love for Grandma and Papa was amazing to watch.  It is sad to know that we will not be able to go and visit again until December (hopefully not late December with Travis' work schedule changing soon.) 

Marisa's soccer is over.  She had a great time playing!  It is so funny how distracted kindergartners can be out on the soccer field.  While she got to play Travis and I got to chase the other three around the field.  We got to watch a little though.  Brayden was determined to get out on the field with his sister.  Becca was better once she found her "friend" from school and they got to run and play together.  I am also still playing soccer.  It has been painful but lots of fun.  I am relieved that my team is so understanding that I am nowhere near a good player on the field.  It is great to be playing again, and with a fun, good group of people.  I am starting to get "back" into the game again.  A few of the players remind me of my dad and brothers, so it really feels like I am playing with "family" out there.  Ok, they don't tease as much but the skill level is impressive.

Marisa had her parent-teacher conference and she is doing amazing in school!  We are such proud parents!  She is reading and putting together sentences.  Her penmenship is amazing!  Marisa can be very detail oriantated and serious about her work in school.  She is loving PE and art.  Library has been a treat for the whole family.  She loves to bring home new books and have me read them to the family.  Dad got to have lunch with her last week.  She still has not stopped talking about it since then.

Becca is loving preschool!  Last week we were able to  go to the pumpkin patch with her  Another parent nicely took Becca and Brayden on the hayrack ride to the pumpkin patch to pick pumpkins since Bridget was hungry and didn't want to wait.  The kids had a blast feeding and playing with all the animals.  I still need time to upload those pictures from my cell phone. 

Bridget is crawling and "walking around the coffee table and couches   Well, that's all from in this blog.  Little ones are getting up.  Hopefully I can get on here again soon!

Tuesday, September 29, 2009

9/29/09

Yesterday I learned that even though a day can start great, it can quickly turn into a very challenging day.  Brayden became this crying monster in the afternoon.  He was very tired but obviously hurting.  He would just scream for my arms.  He even fell asleep in my arms.  That was strange but absolutely wonderful.  He did not like me putting him down to go get Bridget.  Well, he threw off supper and arrival time for Marisa's soccer practice and game.  It also gave everyone some strange moods.

Marisa did great at her game.  She almost scored her first goal.  It was so close!  She was very proud of herself.  Her coach (no me) is doing great.  The team was passing the ball and really getting into the game.  If Marisa stays focused on the game she does great.  If she loses focus, you can find her playing with another team (lol the fields are right next to each other).  It was funny but she is not the only one.  The other three enjoyed being outside and playing.  Bridget didn't mind the grass at all.  Brayden started to feel much better when he got his gas out.  Rebecca had a great time kicking the ball around.  Though I have to admit Brayden's soccer skills are pretty awesome.  While dribbling (yes he can dribble quite well) down a slope the ball slowed, he quickly recovered with a simple adjustment and continued with perfect flow to dad. 

On the way to Walmart after the soccer game Rebecca had a "wella moment" (that is what Travis likes to call it).  Bridget started to fuss:  "Mom, Bridget has a stinky diaper" "Thank you Becca, how do you know?" "She is crying" Marisa then asks "Did you smell it?" Rebecca replies "Marisa, I don't want to hear that"
Travis and I couldn't stop laughing.  It was like she was tell Marisa to "shut up" but not using aggressive language just a strong tone.  Once Becca knew we were going "shopping" she was content to let Bridget fuss a little.  Oh, Bridget did not have a stinky diaper, she was tired.  Bridget is now demanding to sleep about 7-8pm nightly.  Any time not at her perfect moment is a struggle.

I thought I just looked at October calendar and it was practically empty.  One morning and the calendar is starting to fill.  I still need to get Marisa's school schedule today and the rest of Becca's on Thursday.  I officially have 4 calendars I maintain here at home.  First is the daily kids calendar for date, weather, holidays, birthdays and a few events.  The second one is my personal paper calendar that gets all info.  I like it because it is permanent and a good record keeper (for example all happenings with building house is now very helpful in court).  I also now transfer that info into the computer for reminders and an easy share with Travis (calendar #3).  Then is the final calendar for Travis.  It is a dry erase board with a cork board.  This is where I put my calendar up and Travis puts important info about work stuff.  I also am able to post all the kids stuff daily there so he always can see everything.  And it is a spot for our "to do" list.  I can see how calendar #4 is going to keep us connected in some very long days and weeks soon to come.

Well, it is off to get things prepared for when Travis comes home.  Hoping to get time to post some pictures.

Sunday, September 27, 2009

9/27/09

What a weekend!!!  Finally everyone was starting to feel better so there were better moods to go around.  Thursday night the girls and I decided to make homemade pizza on the grill.  When Travis came home I found out that the grill was out of propane.  So it was homemade baked pizza.  The girls had a blast mixing the dough and "smooshing" the dough on the pan.  Becca insisted on hotdogs for a topping.  Yes, hotdogs.  I was so happy I had my own little pizza so that I didn't have to taste her's.  She enjoys making the pizzas but won't eat them.

The girls are enjoying Sunday School.  Brayden and Bridget enjoyed having mom and dad to themselves for 1 hour.  We had some good "cleaning" days.  Travis got the garage organized enough to get both cars in.  I got the kitchen, laundry, rest of the house cleaned and a body pillow sewn together.  I need to head out and get more filling for the pillow.  I am still in awe on how fast the house becomes a mess.  Bridget is now become part of the destroyer team.  It also means that I need to keep everything super clean on her level and keep Brayden from dropping all the toys infront of her.  Bridget is everywhere!!!  She is even trying to pull herself up on things.  Her favorite spots are the princess couch and coffee table.  She even enjoys playing under the table.  Bridget is really proud of the fact that she can crawl anywhere then sit up.  She is also is learning how to clap and wave.  So when she sits up she claps for herself and then when I walk into a room she waves.

I made this really good cauliflower dishes that includes cheddar cheese.  Travis and I love it, well the kids weren't so sure about it.  The cheese was cool but that is about it.  They asked where the "dish" is from and what we thought about it.  I told them that it was Grandma's recipe and Travis agreed with me.  So the next day I was eating the leftovers for lunch.  The girls freaked out.  They were concerned that Grandma and Papa were not going to get any of their supper.  I explained that Grandma could make the same thing for Papa and that we will go visit soon.  Rebecca has been "doing" so many things for Grandma.  I have heard her "playing" with Grandma. 

Well, I am tired so I will type again soon.  Hope to get pictures up tomorrow :)

Thursday, September 24, 2009

9/24/09

Yesterday I crashed.  Marisa was also home sick yesterday and today. Both days with a fever.  Her coughing is not as much but I am having a hard time to keep her temp down with out meds.  I knew it would be a tough morning yesterday when I woke up with major sinus pressure and my throat in lots of pain.  When I went to do anything from walking to taking care of kids I felt so weak.  I made it to nap time. Last night was horrid for me.  By the time Travis got home from work I could barely lift my head from the couch.  He was awesome.  He sent me to bed and took over.  He brought Bridget in to nurse a couple of times then it was morning. 

Today has been much better for all the kids.  Rebecca loved school today.  She barely said good bye to me but was "push" me out the door.  She was very happy to see me and gave me a big hug when I went back to pick her up.  Bridget has been proud of her crawling today.  She has roamed the house today.  She was very proud of pulling herself to standing on the stairs.  I noticed that she was not strong enough to climb the stairs but it will be here soon.  Brayden has had fun terrorizing everyone.  He has sat and laid on Bridget and dumped the seashells on her head.  He then started to bug Marisa.  Marisa wasn't handling having him around so she ended up getting in trouble for hitting her.

Bridget napped this morning so I got some cleaning done.  I am still getting used to cleaning after 6 constantly.  I can't wait until they are able to help a little with the cleaning.  By this time of the week I get exhausted cleaning the same spots over and over again all week long.  Why do kids need to just drop toys and walk away.  Brayden has decided to only eat while walking around the house.  It is driving my crazy!!!  I don't allow it and usually send him back to the table.  He has gotten good at sneaking it and talking dad into letting him walk around.

Well, nap time is over.  Back to work.

Monday, September 21, 2009

9/21/09

I made it through the morning!  I got up so late (all the kids slept in) that I was not sure everyone would get where they need to be on time.  Everyone made it with little resistance.  What a weekend.  We ended up not going anywhere since Marisa start to run a temp on and off.  Brayden and Becca seem to be on the up swing.  Now Bridget and Marisa are going through this mess.  I guess I am battling it with some chills at night and a low grade fever.  I am a little congested in the morning.  I go around the house every morning and night with Clorox wipes and Clorox anywhere spraying everything down.  I am about to make myself a belt to hold all my "tools" or I guess I could just go out and get a shower caddy.  Yesterday Marisa cleaned all the doorknobs for me.  She had a blast!

I have some very motivational friends!  I have decided to make more time for "me"and not at midnight.  So I called into the local Soccer stadium and put my name on a waiting list to play soccer.  I am excited and nervous.  I have not played in so long that I am not sure how I will do.  Though once a week will not hurt me and should be lots of fun.  Another thing I started was blogging again.  I love to write but never have time.  This is my "writing" time.  About 10min a day when all the kids are asleep.  I figure it is a good time to keep "grandmas" up to date on the kids (grandpas too) and relieve some stress since I have no "out" right now.  Now I just need to figure how not to feed it into Facebook.  I am sure that everyone on my list doesn't want to hear me blabbering everyday. 

Last night I realized how hard Mondays can be for Mom.  I had so much to do and Marisa was just bouncing off the wall with excitement for school.  It is nice to see her excited for school but not so nice to see all the papers I needed to sign and fundraiser I had to fill out.  Travis was not happy about the fundraiser.  He wanted me to write a check out and just give it to the school.  Wish we could do that sometimes. 

Marisa and Rebecca started Sunday School yesterday at church.  They were excited to be in the same class.  Travis and I just had Brayden and Bridget in church.  It was nice yet weird.  We could actually pay attention more and hear what was going on.  Brayden was such an amazing little boy compared to normal with the girls being around.  He had our attention which he liked.  Bridget was tired so I just rocked her down while in the pew.  I am so happy she is used to noise because she just fell right to sleep.  Bridget makes the days so much easier with her happy, laid back attitude.  The first break for Sunday School is Thanksgiving weekend. Marisa asked if there was Saturday school anywhere, she would like to go to that.  LOL she can make me laugh.

I turned on the computer today to start working on "legal stuff" and realized when the computer crashed we lost what I was working on.  Yes I did save the file.  Some how with recovering our system I lost the 3 last files I was working on.  Ahhhh.  Back to the beginning for me.  I feel like I am never home to clean lately.  I have been to the doctor too many times and all this school and soccer stuff is driving me crazy.  I am nervous about the outage in November and how crazy it will get then.  I understand it is "scheduled" for 30 days but to be prepared for 45 or more days of Travis working 60hour weeks possible night shift.  From what he said no traveling from 2 weeks prior to 2weeks after.  I worry about him, the kids and lastly me (vacation for me in Jan?).  I am trying to think positive and be the center juggler so all are happy.  First I need to get through October when Travis will be gone for a week and the girls have so much school stuff going on, then I can worry about Thanksgiving and Christmas.  I realized that we can celebrate around Travis' schedule and all can still be happy.  Seeing my mom not just survive stuff like this with us, but come out of it so strong, has given me the strength I need to start.  That doesn't mean I won't be calling a lot, she is my mom and I love talking to her and getting advise (hope I am not bugging you too much).

Since tonight is Soccer/Frisbee night I need to go start supper.  I understand both may be canceled due to rain and Travis working late but nothing has been canceled yet so I must prepare.  Soccer 5:30 - 6:30 and Frisbee from 6:30 to 8pm???  When do I feed supper?  too early for my liking.

Saturday, September 19, 2009

9/19/09

GO BIG RED!!!  Husker game is on!  Travis and the kids are watching the game.  Well Travis is while chaos occurs around him.  That happens here.  Anytime the "adults" want to watch/do something or are occupied (like on the phone or in the shower) the "kids" feel like it is the perfect time to test their boundaries.  Where am I while they are watching the game?  Cooking!  Yup someone has to feed all those bellies who will soon be entering my realm to but me and inflict chaos.   Here comes Brayden hunting in our cabinets.  He really enjoys tearing everything out of the cabinets and trying a little of everything he finds.  He just approved my croquettas for me.

The girls have been "helping" around the house today.  I guess I am slowly sneaking in chores for them to do.  She was helping me with lunch today.  "Mom, I like helping you cook.  I really love helping you cook", "Thanks sweetie, I like it when you help", "I only help though, at lunch and supper.  You are cook great at breakfast."  LOL.  I gave are a big kiss and hug and thanked her.  I know my morning are crazy but I got to see it through the eyes of my 5 year old.  Then at lunch, towards the end, she asked me to look at her tooth.  She said that there was something stuck behind it.  When I took a look there was something there.  So I further investigated it to find out that the tooth wiggled.  Yup, our little girl is losing her first baby tooth.  Travis' eyes were so mixed with emotion.  I just felt lost for moment.  We never thought it was time for her to start losing teeth.  She has grown up so fast!

Bridget has gotten a new gear or army crawling.  She is all over this house.  She has found a shortcut through where the two couches met.  That really impressed Brayden.  Bridget spends the time searching out new "toys".  She as already learned if she is hungry to find the kitchen, that is where food and mom are.  She has yet to discover that Brayden enjoys dropping his meals on the floor.  Bridget has learned how to sit up from crawling.  She thinks it is pretty cool.  Brayden and Becca are starting to learn that Bridget can now get into all their toys that are out.  Brayden does not like the fact that someone else can bug him.

Brayden.  Wow!  He is becoming such a handful.  I have always know that boys and girls play differently but wow.  I am starting to give "wrestling" time and destruction time for him.  I may not be a good wrestler but I sure try to keep him active.  Destruction time has been fun, like ripping up a paper we just drew on before throwing it to recycle or to have him shred my spam mail.  He is having a tough time expressing his emotions.  He is just going to hitting and biting.  Of course after a couple of days of this it hits me: this is a phase all kids go through just differently.  So, I now get to enjoy following the screams and showing him how to react.  Not that my day wasn't busy but it gets busier every day.

Off to bed for me.  I am starting to get what the kids have. Low grade fever and chills.  Not fun but I need to get this out of me quick, there are no days off for me, but I will take the rest of the night off to wake up tomorrow and still have the same disaster.  Ahhh, being mom.

Friday, September 18, 2009

9/18/09

Yesterday was Travis' birthday!  Yeah Travis!  I can say that when he was home he was well spoiled.  I know that at work he got to go out to lunch with some coworkers and had fun.  Travis enjoyed all the phone calls from family!  He had a smile on his face all night long.

For me the past 2 days have been chaos.  Well, I guess I am learning that chaos in normal in this house.  We had some computer problems so off I was to get it fixed, or drop the computer off to be fixed.  I think I was home for a total of 2 hours during school hours and until Travis got home.  I was wiped out with everything.  During our nightly checks with the girls, Travis noticed that Becca had a fever.  When I got up there it was 105.  So, a nice cool bubble bath, Motrin, and "juice" party occurred in the kid's bath at midnight.  Travis was awesome.  I was so tired and scared.  I couldn't even stand still.  He played with her in the bath and I checked on all the other and did dishes.  He cuddled with her in her towel to help the shaking she was going through.  She slept in our bed last night so we could monitor fever and give tylenol at 3am.  Needless to say we got no sleep. 

Today, Brayden and Becca have been fighting nonstop.  I didn't mind the running around.  The hitting, biting and screaming were out of hand!  I finally was able to pen them in for lunch.  I took one look at Becca and knew she was not feeling good.  Her temp was up to 104 again.  So Motrin and a call into the doctor.  I started to put a cool washcloth on her while waiting for the call back.  Then off to the doctor's office.  So, he said to treat her symptoms as I am and a stronger antibiotic for the sinus and ear infection.  They weren't going to test for the swine flu because it seems that she is getting better and treating the symptoms is best.  So far her temp is back down and staying down.  Doctor said perfectly fine to take her to the AppleJack festival if we keep her temperature down today.

Even though the kids have been sick they are in some great moods, well most of the time.  The girls are loving school.  Brayden loves his extra reading time.  Bridget is loving her new mobility.  Marisa has been doing a lot with apple this week.  She said she is making applesauce today.  Marisa was so excited to go to school.  That is why Travis picked the Apple Festival for tomorrow.

Hopefully there will be one day in the following weeks I can stay home and clean.  Sounds funny but I feel like I am barely in this house to clean.  I am always out taking kids everywhere or grocery shopping.  Some quiet time home and even time out without kids in tow would be nice.  Since there is no chance at that I will enjoy my late nights of quiet moments. 

One interesting thing I noticed.  Why do I spend the week (especially Thursdays and Fridays) peeling children out of bed at 7:30 or even 8am but on Saturday morning all kids are up before 6am, the one morning I get to sleep in?    Well off to round up kids and pick up Marisa. 

Wednesday, September 16, 2009

9/16/09

Last night we stayed home. No rush out for soccer, grocery shopping, or doctors. It was nice. Travis worked late so hotdogs and leftover pizza worked great. Lots of laughs and giggles. Baths, homework and bed for the kids. It is strange to say it was such a relief to put them to bed. Both girls were over tired and in such interesting moods. Brayden was still stuck to me and cranky. Bridget was so tired for not taking any naps yesterday. The silence of the house was amazing! We got a few phone calls down and cleaning done. Just as I was about to settle into more questions and answers from the lawyer, Travis asked if I wanted a break. We probably shouldn't have but we played some video games. We have not done that for over 5 years now. It was such an amazing time together!! It reminded us both about what we used to do for fun years ago. Since we met (almost 10 years ago) we used to love to play computer games and video games together. Staying up laughing and eating (ask my parents, they were a hub of games on weekends we visited). It was what Travis and I needed. With no babysitters and our schedule getting full (it happened fast) there has been no down time for me or us. I felt a little refreshed today. Though staying up till 1am playing was not smart, fun but not smart.

Patience. So wish I had more today. Becca got up in such a mood. I just put her in the car with PJs on and no shoes to take Marisa to school. It is still nice out so no big deal. She was not happy about that. So we get home and she gets dressed. Brayden fills his own snack bowl and Bridget starts rubbing here eyes (yes! nap time). So I nurse, burp and start rocking. Brayden thought he would be big brother and "sing" to Bridget. So now I am rocking a very sleepy cranky baby as my 2 year old screeches some unreconizable song. Bridget is getting spooked just as she tries to fall asleep multiple times with these little eyes begging me to stop the noise. Brayden then gets offended as I try to keep him about a leg distance away. Becca and Brayden have decided to enter a new way of playing together which involves a lot of wrestling, hair pulling, and hitting. Oh fun! I decide to bake Travis a birthday cake (his mom's chocolate cake recipe). Brayden decides to explore the cabinets as I begin to pray Bridget can sleep through all the noise. Brayden then hands me a great find. The small powder sugar container! Than he points to his shirt. Yup, you guessed it I am sure. He was covered in powder sugar and the floor behind him marked his trail from the cabinet. Off I went to get the dustpan to clean him and the floor up. I even got a kiss after it was all cleaned :)

Of course, Bridget wakes up. I sit her down in the living room so she can play. Just after I get into the kitchen I feel a little tug on my pant. Brayden grabs my hand and says "ick" and drags me back by Bridget. She spit up, a little but he insisted I clean it up. Another kissed earned by mom. The normal chaos of lunch then occurs. As I am cleaning up I noticed the middle two fighting again at my feet. I glance in at Bridget and she was at a Cheerio buffet and proud of it. Brayden and Becca were fighting over their snack bowls. So, off I went to "drag" them back to scene for clean up. I sit them down each with a piece of cut off cake to hopefully keep them quiet while I nurse Bridget. While I am nursing Brayden comes crying with his hand covered in something brown. In my head: "ok I did not give you that much cake, wait that is a lighter brown..." Out loud: "BRAYDEN MICHAEL WHY DID YOU HAVE TO TOUCH YOUR POOP IN YOUR DIAPER!!!! GET BACK HERE!!!!!" Bridget was not happy to stop eating but this needed to be dealt with. Lots of antibiotic soap and hand sanitizer was used to clean everywhere on that boy. Patience..... that is my word for today. I understand everyday will have its ups and downs. I am beginning to understand that everyday will be very busy and overwhelming but since I am mom God knows I have the strength and yes patience somewhere in me.

Now time for some coffee and lunch.

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

9/15/09

First half of my day has been interesting. I woke up early today. Well early for me. I am going to guess about 6am thought the alarm started at 5:30. It is all part of that master plan of waking up early to get a shower, breakfast and a few minutes to talk with Travis before he leaves and the house wakens from its slumber. Going to bed after midnight did not help me wake up with a cheer mood but the shower helped me take hold of my day. Few minutes with Travis didn't work but, still I was going to start my day off well. Kids still asleep? check. off to check e-mail. Have you ever gotten one of those e-mails that just by the title you don't want to open. Yup, first thing for me was that dredged e-mail. So the world around me thought my day needed to start not so well.

By the time I sorted out the horrid e-mail enough for the day all kids were up and bouncing around the house. I thought that getting 4 kids fed in the morning at one time would get easier as they get older, but nope it gets harder. I guess being a short order cook for 4 doesn't help. Bridget fruit and rice cereal, Rebecca gets waffle, Marisa wants dad's cereal with milk, Brayden wants..... well he not much of an eater so "juice" small bowl of cheerios and he discovered my toaster strudel so no breakfast for me yet. All, settled? Nope fights over who is blowing on them, looking at them and singing at them at the table ensue and Bridget wants to nurse not eat cereal. Still I promise my self that we are all leaving the house with a smile. We rush to get everyone dressed and 2 backpacks filled. Yup I said filled. Marisa need apples, oh gosh I forgot apples. Open fridge to find that Travis went out last night and got apples, YEAH DAD! Ok now the fight over what shoes to wear. and then into the car. Drop two off and home I go.

Thought Bridget would nap. Why would she? So fuss with her while I am quickly reminded that boys are very hard to take care of when sick. So I nursed Bridget with Brayden "monitoring" all contact on my lap too. If I moved he moved. It was like someone taped him to me. I would peel him off and run to do things (like potty) and he would scream after. Ok, today is not getting better. Another round of phone calls settles completes my morning to do list. Now books, make lunch and pick up Rebecca. Brayden's lesson from lunch: M&M's melt in applesauce. Peanut butter cups don't fair well or taste great after being stirred into applesauce.

So now I vow that the day will end with smiles. Brayden may still cry to be in my arms but he will be happy overall from the day. Now I am off to hopefully put Bridget to nap and then wake her up and the rest up to pick up Marisa. I pray she can be in a better mood after school today.

Monday, September 14, 2009

Wow! Today was one interesting day. I was in full mommy mode as my day came to a crashing halt....Brayden got sick. He has had this nagging cold for a few weeks and an ear infection on the first but wow he was sick. He was screaming in bed covered in puke. As grossed out as I was I picked him up, hugged him and calmed him down. Cleaned the bed and him up. Cuddled on the couch to listen to his breathing stop. He panics, cries and back into mom's arms he goes. We grab everything we need and cuddle on mom's bed. I gave Nanny a quick call. Ok I was panicking and needed advise. So, I went to the one person who has all the mommy answers, my mom. She talks to him and he is proud and happy to have his blankie and nanny (well phone and her voice but it works). Reassurance from my mom that I am doing my best and back to some cuddle time. Quick call back from doctor and off I go to pack all the kids up. Yup, it took me 1 hour to pack all 3 kids up to pick up Marisa. I know, crazy that it should take me that long. I had to get 4 kids snacks and drinks packed. Diapers changed, one on potty. 3 shoes on and 1 girl's hair done. Oh, and wake the other 2 up and nurse Bridget. Becca was such a great sport. She tagged along with a great big smile an became such a great big helper. Marisa stepped in and helped after I picked her up. All sat nice and still had their snacks as we wait for the doctor. In walked DAD. The excitement rose and all cheers (I mean screams) began for him with the running and hugs. (I would love for this to happen to me just once) I love watching how much they love their dad. The two younger girls took it pretty well that they were getting the flu shot. Marisa not so much but she got over it fast. Brayden was even in line for a shot, but he will need to wait until next time. Then it was off to find medicine and supper. Soccer was missed tonight but we made it to the open house for Marisa's school. She had such great reviews from her teacher! I am so proud of her!! I can't believe how much she is reading already.

Lesson learned today: Even if mom is getting a lot done around the house, nothing goes as planned and that if you have amazing support (thanks mom and Travis) then you can conquer sick kids and everything else.

Catch up

Well, it has been quite awhile since I last blogged. I don't know where to begin. The house seems to be the main questions. The house is for sale. We have a signed offer on the house and waiting for a few things to get finalized so we can set the closing date. As far as the contractor issues, he has filed for bankruptcy with over 103 debtors. We have a case pending on recovering some of our extra costs that we have put into the house and also the burden to prove his fraud. I will update as the trial gets set and we move forward. The house stuff has sent us on an emotional roller coaster for over 2 years now. We will need some time to process everything before we talk or write about all of it. As we go through trial paper work we are constantly go through alot of the emotions constantly, it is hard on us. No one should go through what we did. I am going to keep the house stuff off this website and concentrate on the wonderful family time we now have since we are living together again.

Travis accepted a position at OPPD in Fort Calhoun, NE. In July we moved to Omaha. Since the move we have had some amazing family time. Just the simple giggles laughs and family dinners that we had been missing for so long. Travis is really enjoying his job.

In August we had our marathon of birthdays. Marisa turned 5. I can't believe she is already 5! When did she grow up? It seems like yesterday that I held her for the first time. She got to celebrate her birthday in school. At first she was not excited about it but then she realized it was really cool. She got to share her birthday celebration with 29 other people then come home to share it with all of us. She has never had that many people sing Happy Birthday to her and she thought it was cool. She got cards and a birthday hat from school. Brayden turned 2. Wow,2! He has gone through this little growth spurt or leap. He has gotten taller and I got to go out and get 2T clothes for him. The still fall off his skinny little body but he needs the length. Good thing mom has a sewing machine to help that out a little. He is picking up so many words suddenly. He is also putting together small sentences. He has this amazing mind! Brayden can easily mimic anything you do, from opening doors to putting his shoes on. He is still a pro at teasing his sisters. He even kicks Bridget when they are both laying on the floor together (don't worry she kicks back.) I made Brayden a football cake for his birthday. He loved it! I know, a soccer ball will be next year. My birthday was also in August. I had an amazing day at the zoo and with the family that night.

Marisa started Kindergarten the week of her birthday. She was so excited. Not even scared the first day. She gave me a big hug and kiss and off she went. Marisa is learning so much and excelling in school. She is becoming a social butterfly! I love the smile she has when she comes home! She is still adjusting to the long days with no nap but doing well. Usually Thursday and Friday are the hard days. Rebecca started pre-preschool. She goes Tuesdays and Thursdays for a couple of hours. She is loving it! There is only one other girl in the class but that doesn't seem to be bothering her. Teacher is impressed with her knowing all her shapes, colors, and letters already. She just loves all the arts, crafts, songs, play time and new friends.

Brayden is becoming a wonderful big brother. He loves his little sister and makes sure he spends lots of time around her. He also loves to play with Becca. Marisa has been keep to herself lately so Brayden is trying to play with her too but it is not welcoming yet. I just hope Marisa is going through a phase in life. As long as she is not too rude we are allowing her to have some alone time. Well, Bridget is up from her 10 min nap. I will be back to write more soon!

Thursday, February 19, 2009

Bridget turns 2 weeks




Yesterday we took Bridget to her 2 week check up (can't believe it has been that long). She is now 8lbs 4oz and 21.5 inches long. She has definitely grown! She has been more alert the last few days which is nice. Unfortunately it is at 3am. So I am not getting much sleep lately. My mom and I tag teamed her last night because she was up every hour. I am hoping it is a growth spurt and she will sleep soon at night. Coffee is my best friend today.
So this means my mom leaves next week. I am definitely getting scared about that. Bridget only burps and relieves gas with her (she just wants food from me) and my mom has and is a huge help with everything else. We will all miss her. So until then we are having lots of fun! We even get to celebrate her birthday on Monday. Don't worry Wello, we will spoil our Nanny.

Monday, February 09, 2009

Welcome Bridget Raquel!






February 4, 2009 Bridget Raquel decided it was time to be born. She weighted 7 lbs 15.5 oz and was 19inches long. Marisa loves having a sister. Rebecca finally thinks she is a big sister (Brayden didn't count I guess). Brayden is still learning how to be gentle with Bridget (he thinks she is one of the girl's baby dolls). We are all happy to have her home safe. I am recovering and hoping Bridget nurses a little more and gets her nights and days switched back to normal. I am so thankful to have my mother here helping me! It has been wonderful to have both my dad and mom here. I can't explain how wonderful it has been to watch them play and spend thier days with the kids. I only wish we lived closer so they could all have more time together. The kids have been loving every moment with them as well.

Monday, January 26, 2009

New baby soon....

I have been having contractions since about November. My doctor said that they are stress induced contractions which makes them no less painful but more of and irritant at this time. I have been supposed to be off my feet for a while now but how do you I begin to do that with 3 kids running around and construction everywhere? So, I continue through my day and pray the contractions go away. Soon I just become numb to the pain. On Becca's birthday I fell flat on my back due to getting a splinter in our new wood floors (the one the old contractor incorrectly put down), and stepping in a slick spot with the other foot. I fell on my back and slightly to my left. I was in pain for a few days but the baby was fine. About 2.5 weeks ago the estimated to baby to weight about 6lbs. It surprised me how big the baby was already. My next appointment is this Thursday. The c-section date is Feb. 6th (the day before our anniversary).

Now we have a cold going through the house (I swear the kids got from playing with the clinic toys). Rebecca got it first with a fever. The Brayden got the fever and ear infection (not a fun little boy to be sick). I start to have a cold with him. Then Marisa got it with a fever and mine intensified. Marisa is getting better, Becca is great, and Brayden is doing good. I ended up in the ER last night because I couldn't stand the pain anymore. Apparently I had a severe sinus infection. So now I am on antibiotics and tylenol 3.

Happy Birthday Becca!!





I can't believe that Rebecca turned 3 on the 10th. The years have gone by so fast! She had a little princess party. She wanted our neighbors to come up for the party. The three boys did well with an all pink party. I found all pink M&M's, princess plates and cups and the main event for her was the ice cream cake with Princesses on top. They are still talking about that cake today. Grandma and Papa came to make the day special for her. Mom made it scary when she fell, but is doing fine.

Merry Christmas!!





Now my Christmas cards and list all got packed so when I find them I will send them. We had a wonderful Christmas here. Travis rolled out some of the living room carpet so the kids could open gifts up on some carpet rather than sub floor. Brayden quickly got the idea of how to open gifts. He was pretty good at waiting for his own gifts which surprised me. He also only took a handful of ornaments off the tree. He mainly enjoyed looking at his reflection in them. Though I am confident he was distracted by the new house and what he could get into.

Becca loved her dollhouse and "dog". This is the kind of dog I like it has an "off" button. She loved decorating the tree and talking about their nativity. She hasn't learned to recognize her name yet so she had to rely on Marisa to find her gifts. She was the first up that morning but decided to go back to bed. Apparently it was too early for Becca to wake up (7am).

Marisa thought it was great that she could read everyone's name. She was proud to be in charge of handing out gifts. All she wanted from Santa was a Barbie dress. Marisa started opening her boxes and began crying. This confused Travis and I because they were new Barbie dolls and cars and such. Then she was making comments about Santa forgetting her. We quickly realized what was going on. She had not opened her dress up yet. Since Marisa wouldn't let us suggest any box to open we consoled her as much as possible. The very last gift she opened was the dress by then she was completely upset and just ripping into her presents not know what was in side. When Marisa opened her dress she screamed and started dancing around the room with it. After calming down she had to ask which gifts were hers.

Our Christmas was very memorable.

Long time.

I have not had the chance to blog in quite a long time. We had a sudden decision to move into our new home before the holidays. We "parted ways" as Travis likes to put it from our original builder. He was sticking to no time line, quality was getting horrible and wanted a lot more money oh and he stole material. So now Travis stays up 4-6 days a week until 4am or 5am working on the house. Currently he is staining and finishing coats the main stairwell so we can hopefully move everyone into their bedrooms soon. The kids and us are currently sleeping in the basement. We hired a new builder and are excited to see the house finished.